Fear can stop you doing a lot of things.
It can stop you taking a month off your coaching business while you complete a yoga teacher training because you fear that everyone will forget about you and all of your clients will disappear.
It can tell you that you have to keep working every second of every day, and if you do stop then you will be left behind and forgotten. So don’t stop working. Don’t rest and don’t take a pause.
It can paralyse you with recent world events, maybe you want to contribute but you fear to say the wrong thing, how can you help?
It’s a little taboo isn’t is, there’s some things that are simply off topic. You know, just not ‘appropriate’ to speak about? But I really want to bring to light a conversation that I hope might help you.
First let me paint the scene, I had just quit my part time job. It was official I was going full time in my business – it was time.Then a couple of days later my partner was off on a weekend away and I was left crying on the couch, despaired.
How am I actually going to do this?
How am I going to earn money from this?
I mean enough to pay my bills?
“So, I’m afraid of what people are going to think about me. I mean what if they think I’m weird? A sellout? A freak? Who do they think they are to help other people or call themselves a life coach, they’re how old? Really it’s probably just another phase.”
Can you relate?
If you are a heart centred woman with a burning desire to create a business that lights you up. To have the freedom you are craving and success on your own terms, chances are you’ve heard that all too familiar chatter in your head before.
If you work in the service based industry than chances are it can feel totally daunting at times.
On Sunday 18th June I had the absolute pleasure of gracing the stage with my fellow mastermind girls to share our message at the annual Inspired Women’s Showcase. I don’t know if you can tell by my beaming face but it was an absolute joy and I loved every single moment.
I’m so excited to dive a bit deeper into the day, what I got from this experience and share a very exciting announcement at the end as well. (more…)
Have you been feeling like a complete failure as of late? I probably don’t even have to describe to you how that feels, because you kind of just know.
That whatever you are doing is not enough, you aren’t far enough along as you should be, you don’t have life all figured out and seriously why are you still struggling with that issue? If people could see inside your mind they would see what a complete fraud you are.
Those thoughts, stories and way you speak to yourself is not something you are just uncovering. You are all to familiar with the catch cry of ‘not enough’ in your life.
Always feeling like you haven’t done enough, that you are behind, that you aren’t going to reach your goals, so really why even bother?